Don't meet again Lover who has already said good-bye, don't meet again either in remaining years. You and that section of feelings of his are not worth aftertasting at all, why meet again? The scene of this kind of reunion will only make everybody unhappy. You see he is old, live a less than satisfactory life, you are happpy you left him that year. However, after saying goodbye to him, you are deep one's own and merciless and guilty. This kind of feeling is too uncomfortable, not so good as don't meet again. You meet him again, find he remoulds oneself thoroughly, and you are not very satisfactory. Let him see that live unhappily in life that you will leave him afterwards, where can your dignity be still put? Not so good as don't meet again. The past a section of feelings imprinted on the bones and inscribed on the memory, you were accidental will also remember him, you would like to know too what if he turns into nowed, have a good time in life. As you go to those places that you often went in the past, a heart of yours will also beat, you will think: "Will I run into him here? " Such being the case, too don't meet again in remaining years. You meet less than he again forever, beautiful memory will live forever, in the heart, see he, but the result may be different. He is not that person in the past, you appreciated his intelligence most in the past, but, at this moment meeting again, you find, he has not progressed. You think you if let you see him again, you will certainly not let him leave, today, having let you see, you find it is not that matter, I wonder when to begin, you have already lost that to feel to him, you have not loved him for a long time. Then disappointed to meet again, is equal to destroying one's own memory personally, the thing of chilly acid how is that? Why can't forget Yu JiangHu?
Line two woman In life, there are some women not perfect, their status is a bit more modest, appearance nearly, pierce through first line old brand, husband that might look for counted as highest grade to be top either, but they are alive and very happy, it is very relaxed, there is a prospect very much. Seeming a little American, there are a little oneselves, a little is innocent, it is enough for her to live If life attitude one definition to give them, one Hollywood star very brief to produce secret while being genuine: " first line " It is a red carpet, " Line two " It is the daily life. In life, there are always few first line women, the great majority are Line two women, but so what? We ordinary women, make money according to one's own skill, have a daydream once in a while, have woken up and gone straight towards the fairly comfortable life in dream. Non- full of remorse, not giving oneself up as hopeless, but interest is dressing up oneself and life daring and energetically high, we ourselves are relaxed such life, attracting those outstanding men even more too! And you should know, ordinary and happy life is that a lot of first line women can not envy that came!
Treat oneself kindly and treasure life
The hutong not very small, is connecting the main street. Hutong have many little gatekeeper, turn on dirty little window small and. Nearby one landlord of wild peach trees turn on light pink flowers, the trunk is stalwart, a flowers are luxuriant. In the environment of this place, it has some flavors among them. There are various types of boards above every gate house, say: The barber shop, say: The footherapy room, say: Massage parlour The woman or age is a little bigger in the room, or age is a bit smaller, put on gay clothing and powder one's face. Strange Ñb bunch, a little one that wear as much as possible little, plain boiled pork dark meat powder meat spend meat powder spend meat to be ready to appear, wait for a chance to cause trouble. The sky just left the shower, but the fresh air could not wash netly the dust after the rain, washed and can not dispose of the vicissitudes which held î of those women. Listen to the friend Õf once in a while, because is overlooking, has to pass here. Terrified open provocation of woman those, make around wife man extremely happy many times, but unable to respond. Then, the men are often a ß[of the excuse, the women detest shying away. There is no alternative will suffer robber's the same treatment by the strange man in this way, have much main room wash hair, chase foot kidnap you, man let faint head bloated brain silly and stupefied. Each, and friend,see because it wave furiously one woman bright red flowers and green willows waist, hold scarlet lip by cigarette in the mouth, dragging and drawing the dirty old man of a dress, the man accepts while pretending to refuse, whether or compromise, may have discussed prices. Looking too, the luxurious vehicle berthed actually on in ªM narrow hutong, a row a team, very grand. The Third Five-Year Plan Period forms the man right and comes in and goes out exquisitely dressedly, calls it by the fine-sounding name of: Footherapy of washing hair. See, buy and sell unfair also, strike violently, evil language in opposite directions, previous quarter, I of you you you, tenderness honeyed purpose, quarter, fall into disrepute dignity. Think, that colourful ân bank note magic power is very large, those women have ravaged the man's self-respect and human body, also want you to pay the bill. Man because bank note do mischief, selfish desire difficult to resolve, make a desperate move, who on earth ravage who. See such a thing on the newspapers and periodicals: One high-ranking official, while chasing after the girls and making merry, the righteous and honourable one says, this is to invigorate local economy, in the thick î's shameless saying that dedicated oneself to the city for the people of that time that he is carrying the trousers. Should criticize the not conducting oneself with dignity, unrestrained, shameless of the woman, or abuse some corrupt officials the rich with no mercy to the poor, lordly, is life degenerated? I often think: What is the meaning of life? The meanings of life are all sought out by oneself, created: Noble, mean, respectable and morally lofty or upright, dirty, useful and useless Depend on one's own conduct completely. The meaning of life does not lie in why grow, but lie in what life oneself is. If you want, ruin when being muddy and shocking chi of bodies, that you meaning for life. If you work energetically and bestir oneself, pursue the meaning of the life, constant creation, you live for one day, the meaning that has one day. Then the life is infinite, the meaning of the life is infinite too. I do not abuse and bring disgrace to them, I think as the woman they will yearn for being honourable too, proud work. Even poverty, even ordinary. But, intelligent, passionate, how to spoil that flesh and blood arbitrarily, sell one's soul. If just for money, only interests of the money, can't activate life and get up either, only lives of treating conscientiously, happy like flavour, all like creating life and having a taste of all of human world by one's own work. Different life More door, I of time, live for people loved, kindred, love, friendship. We trickle blood that parents give in the body, have the heart that warm-heat evil beat for, how to let down, this flesh and blood. What life can't choose the birthplace, what look can't be chosen to produce, but can we choose.
Give marriage kind reason The development in an all-round way strives for a relatively comfortable life, construct the harmonious society, it is the goal that we pursue. The standard of living has reached the well-to-do level, is the society harmonious? Undeniable, playing a very important role to progress of the society richly of the material. However, as regards a certain meaning, the harmony of the family is society's harmonious important foundation stone. It is family's harmonious requirement that the happiness of the marriage is stabilized. The family is the cells of the society, what the happy index of the family is reflected is the civilization intensity of the society. The first need of people's is needs of surviving, must be based on certain material. Exactly so-called diet men and women, couple of rice and fuel, there is not the most basic material, not just surviving, any aspiration ideal, family are happy, no matter how a wild boast you speak, fantasy that the final all only fight only on paper. The reform of last century, brought about an social advance, solved people's most basic adequate food and clothing of existence. More than 30 years passed by, people's living standard attained a new height, a lot of families march toward well-to-do level era gradually. The development speed of the material progress is close to terrifically, the rich material has not caused the happy soil, today developed day by day in the material progress, the spiritual civilization gets corresponding development too. However, some people's concept, value orientation are reversed seriously, the happy index of the family has not been improved with development of the society, some once happy marriages have been pushed to the teeth of the storm too, when being precarious. If marriage grave of love, why have so many person would rather enter? If the marriage is the happy palace, why will so many sad and gentle and sad, disappointed and even desperate expressions in one's eyes appear absurdly? Pining lovers once, now like birds flying in different directions, go straight west east each, such a story is being nearly performed every day. Getting used to each in this world to shut jointly, as to the marriage, people are vast and hazy, is puzzled. The love is beautiful and simple, the marriage is much more complicated. Move towards the marriage from the love, it is far from that only beautiful lens that the camera is presented to common people, relaxation, graceful, coloured and dazzling. Motive that both sides get married, all dark to influence the happy index in the future deeply. There are enough reasons in associations of every marriage. Parents the advanced in years,but when when care for,from at the not chattering of parents, let's find out by they the heavy loads of the shoulders. Shouldn't let parents worry about by oneself, get married, settle their wish, this is fulfilling one's duty to one's parents of another form; Around good friend one enter, encircle a city, already existing life circle slow to diminish, disappear even while being slow, feel lonely lonely, love of wishing eagerly, and love, want, have one's own family, may when frightening at least, in weariness, there is a warm berthing the harbour; It is the most important that the man thinks women lovely, it is the most important that it is reliable that the woman thinks men, feeling that absense makes the heart grow fonder that really have; There are too many trival matters in life, sometimes a person of oneself is unable to face, clear, needed a helper originally. The world is fast changing, the heart is floated, the changes of the personality, position, background, the once marriage reason seems unseasonable, all reasons may disappear, the marriage without emotion is to all tormenting each other, it is unavoidable to divorce. People say " one hundred things of poor and lowly couple are sad " ,Because divorce in poverty, such an example really exists. Life is realistic after all, it would not help matters for all illusion. At extremely poor moment, all sorts of contradictions are shown especially, the minor matter of the trifles can develop into the war too, the love can not solve the substantive problem. Different life In fifty or sixty times last century, it is an extremely rare thing to divorce. Who who has divorced, guilty of heterodoxy in others' view, should be universally condemned. Influenced by spring tide of market economy, there are too many all parameters, the marriage is no exception. Talk about divorcing now, people have already faced the fearful with no fears. Perhaps people will ask, the society has progressed, economic development, people's living standard has been improved, normally, having broken away from the poverty, the marriage should be firmer. But why is divorce rate higher and higher? Hardly realizing the rising of the divorce rate is rich exactly. " think of excessive desire fully and warmly " ,Have enough money to indulge oneself, accept, seek external enticement. How to carry marriage through to the end? It is the love at first, there is responsibility. Love foundation to maintain marriage, some seemingly dull marriage, help each other when both are in humble circumstances all one's life, from abandon. All because of loving. Because of loving, understand; Because of understanding, treasure; Because of treasuring, move; Because of moving, insist on. Because of loving, have a responsibility for the family, for family. A lot of marriages of last century are dominated by parents, but can be permanent. Why is this? Instead of like also not so good as saying it is because of responsibilitying. Because of responsibility, must give to an intact family of child. Will be one part more to forgive, will accept the other side wholeheartedly. Have love, have responsibility, how manage marriage is one difficult thing very.
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